There is a chemical in a girls’ brain is released only two different times in her life, when she has sex, and when she breast feeds her baby. This chemical emotionally connects her to another person for the rest of her life. Us guys? We only release this chemical when we bond with our children. So if you think sex is a game and go around fucking as many girls as you want, remember that you can mentally mess this girl up for the rest of her life. If you’re still friends afterwards then whatever, but she will always feel some sort of feeling for you, just because of the chemical.
It’s called Oxytocin, it’s actually released when a woman gives birth as well. But this is so true… sex is more than just a game, and this is a clear reason that explains why humans were only created to have sex with just one person. Doing it with multiple people will have a very strong negative effect on your relationship with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I wish more kids knew about this… not that this should be your only motive not to have sex before marriage, but it is one of the most important.
Everyone should know this.
This is actually incorrect. Yes, Oxytocin definitely exists and is released upon these occasions, but also upon many, many more…
There was a scientific experiment, in which a group of men, who had never met each other before, had to play a game of rugby together: they took blood sample before and after the warm up, finding that oxytocin became present after the warm up, as a result of the men emotionally bonding, to work as a team, during the warm up.
I appreciate what this person’s saying, but I think the fact that they’re using incorrect facts, to try and enforce their opinion is wrong.
Humans were definitely not created to only have sex with one person, not at all. Biologically men are ‘created’ to have sex with shit loads of people, arguably women not so many but still…
I’m not saying you shouldn’t save yourself for marriage. I’m saying you should do what you feel is best for you; if that means saving yourself for marriage, do so, if you think fucking a lot of people is really going to make you happy, then by all means, fuck them, literally, fuck them-just wear a condom.
Also, in anything to do with sex you may want to think about your emotional state, as people sometimes use it as a way of trying to deal with problems that may be better dealt with in other ways.
Of course if a guy fucks a girl around he can leave her really damaged. But women can have just the same effect upon men. It’s more about the emotional stability of the people involved, rather than their gender.
Last thing, it should be girl’s not girls’.